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A Practical, Uncensored Conversation About Breast Cancer


Complimentary Treatments

There is a big difference between Traditional Treatment, Complimentary
Treatment and Alternative Medicine. This is about Complimentary Treatment that goes along side Traditional Medicine.

Some of these might resonate with you. Others might be “Too far, Lady.” Try the ones that feel right and scroll past the ones that don’t rock your world. Everyone is going to be different.

None of these should take the place of traditional cancer treatment. When I walked into my acupuncturist and saw the crystals she laid out on the table next to the sound machine, I asked if those were going to cure me. She side-eyed glanced at me to see if I was serious and said, “Chemotherapy, radiation and surgery are going to eradicate your tumor. What I do is alleviate the symptoms of those treatments.” I nodded my head. “Right answer,” I said.

Here is a list of things that I used or other people used that they found beneficial:

Yoga –There are dozens, if not thousands, of YouTube videos whose poses deal directly with stress and anxiety. My favorite is Yoga With Adrienne.

Acupuncture - Yes, more needles, but hear me out. The needles do not hurt! This practice has been around for thousands of years and, strategically placed, they alleviate symptoms. A teeny tiny needle between the eyebrows alleviates anxiety. A needle in the fleshy part of between your thumb and forefinger alleviates nausea. Go in with an open mind and comfy clothes. It may surprise you.

Acupressure – Not ready for needles? Try acupressure instead.  It is the same concept, but without the needles.  I found Healthline to have amazing information about this (plus pictures because I have no idea where my LI4 He Gu is).

Mindfulness - Deep, intentional breathing takes the focus off your fears. You are in complete control of your breath and it has a calming effect. There are dozens of videos, apps and more that help with this. My favorites happen to be from my daughter’s Welsh University, Bangor University.

Reiki - Reiki is an energy that uses gentle hand movements through the client's body to reduce stress and promote healing. Some cancer centers have a person who will come through the infusion center and do this during your treatment.

Physical Therapy – Movement of any type can be beneficial. Targeted movement by a trained professional goes straight to the source. I had a weird IT hip pain from treatment that would not go away. Once diagnosed and sent to PT, we found I had zero strength in my legs. Once we targeted that area, I was able to get the pain under control.

Massage/Lymphatic Drainage Massage – If there was one think I would recommend, this would be in the top three. I didn’t have the traditional Lymphedema. I managed to get something not as common, Truncal Lymphedema. To start, find a Physical Therapist trained in Lymphatic Drainage Massage. They will not only perform it on you, they will teach you how to self-massage. Basically it is a very light pulling of the skin in the direction of your lymph nodes, starting closest to the lymph nodes. This moves your lymphatic system along and reduces swelling. There are many videos to self-massage, but my recommendation is to find a pro first.

Dry Brushing – Dry brushing is another version of lymphatic drainage massage. It uses the same concept, but with a soft bristle brush and sometimes oils. While they say to dry brush for 15-20 minutes prior to bathing, I found just a few minutes while the water warms up to be beneficial.

Physical Movement – This is going to look a lot different than prior to cancer. Before cancer I went to the gym three to four times a week and lifted weights. After cancer I walked/wandered for 15 minutes in my backyard several times a day and only twice touched weights. While lying on the couch felt sooooo good, getting up and moving had its place. It also broke up the day and, because I was active, helped me sleep at night.

Nutrition – This one is tricky because your taste buds change. Oddly enough (and I thought this was just me until a coworker had the same thing happen to them) your taste buds change even before treatment happens! Your body will crave some foods and get nauseous at the thought of some foods. Go with the flow. When your taste buds flee the land because of chemotherapy, try new things (don’t eat things you love – it will be fraught with disappointment). Most cancer centers have a nutritionist available.

Crystals – Crystals are also called Earth Stones because are said to help to relieve specific ailments such as anxiety, depression and insomnia, or more physical ailments such as digestive problems.  Some are even said to dissipate the EMF from all the scans associated with cancer.

Herbs – Herbs are not new. They are thousands of years old and many of the medications we use today are a derivative of a plant (Taxotere, a common breast cancer drug is from the bark of a Yew Tree).  We know that drinking peppermint tea is good for calming the stomach. A little bit of research will point out many more.

Music/Sound Therapy – We all know that feeling when a song comes on the radio and it either uplifts us or sends us crashing. Having a soundtrack of uplifting songs can ease anxiety, depression and lower blood pressure (among a ton more benefits). I was able to fit ear buds under my Paxman cold cap during my hours of chemotherapy infusion. Not only did it make me feel better, but it helped me drown out the noise of the center (especially the beep-beep-beep of the empty chemo bag). Another complimentary treatment is vibration healing. This relies on different sound frequencies to change your mood.

Tai Chi/Qi Gong – Both of these are movement based. Both combine meditation, slow, deliberate movement and intentional breathing. Because they are slow, they are low impact and perfect when you know your body needs to move, but you don’t want to go all crazy.

Journaling/Art – As a writer anyway, I found that putting things on paper or on a computer, I was able to acknowledge what was going on. Whether it was fear or uncertainty or happiness from results of a scan, I had an audience (even if the audience was just me). I found CaringBrige to be a world of help, not only in getting the words out, but as a form of communication to others. One benefit of this five years out from diagnosis, I read what I wrote back then and realize what all I went through – and that I made it out! While I don’t paint or draw, your future you will appreciate the expression of art during tough times.

I found a plethora of excellent websites to help navigate my way through some of the less common complimentary therapies.

Healthline – Breast Cancer

Cancer.net

Cancer.gov

WebMD

 


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